Rekindle the Romance: Secrets to Rediscovering Intimacy and Connection

Rekindle the Romance: Secrets to Rediscovering Intimacy and Connection

Rekindle the Romance: Secrets to Rediscovering Intimacy and Connection

Welcome to the adventure park of parenthood—if vomit stains were amusement rides! You're in the fantastically exhausting, slightly sticky stage of 6-to-12-months postpartum. You're sleep-deprived, possibly considering dry shampoo usage as a personality trait, and yet, a spark of thrill and laughter is always a cozy read away. Forget your Netflix password and look your partner in the eyes without counting the seconds till ‘me-time.’ Just kidding! We’ll get through this with equal parts humor and affection!

Your body has played host to and successfully evicted a human tenant in the past year. Bravo! 🍼🎉 If this journey has taught us anything, it’s that our bodies are masterpieces in spandex-worthy art. Have you met the fabulous Mum Tum? For mothers everywhere looking to celebrate the curves, consider Mum Tum leggings that hug like a lover, but don’t snore.

From Binge-Watching to (M)ushy Watching!

Ladies, let’s get real for a second. Distractions are everywhere—from the seemingly-endless baby gear to that mountain of laundry that’s multiplying faster than sourdough starters in 2020. Yet your remote can’t spoon you. Even the charms of Netflix can't replace a cherished moment... Alright, that one last episode of "Bridgerton" can!

“Wow, the last time we cuddled was... when exactly? Jump aboard the cuddle train, choo-choo!”

The latest hit in couple's therapy: contemplating how to date your partner again, now that you debate who should tackle diaper duty like seasoned diplomats. Here’s the trick: plot a home-spa night with zero interruptions. Okay, maybe one: a rogue toddler asking for water.

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Fact: spouse drool is nowhere near as cute as baby drool, but you should try catching these Zzzs together—you deserve it!

Rekindling Romance: It’s Better Than Chocolate

If deciding what toppings to put on your pizza was the extent of difficult decisions before the baby, welcome to the glorious chaos of postpartum coupledom. Oh, how times have shifted. Between navigating milestones like 'introducing solids' (to the baby, not your husband!) and keeping up with the Kardashians’ latest Instagram updates, catching those beloved date nights can be like touching down a jackalope in a suburban meadow.

Do not underestimate the power of lipstick or the uncapping of expensive cologne (only to have it taken over by the ever-present whiff of baby wipes) 💄✨.

A little shimmer, a little scent—it’s not about launching into a full glam squad operation. But a little attention to appearance can reset one's attitude from 'survivor on a deserted island' to 'I’d swipe right on myself!’ It’s total couple goals to find that date under the stars, on the couch, or even while grocery shopping (romantic since 1945).

Communication: More Than Just Word Vomit

If the ‘great conversation’ is currently limited to poorly-timed, half-finished jokes shouted across the kitchen, you’re not alone. Why discuss romantic whisperings when ‘have you seen the baby wipes?’ seems more urgent? But those hushed exchanges of sweet nothings are more effective in sparking romance than realizing your toddler has mastered the art of tzatziki hand murals.

“Why do you always ask where the wipes are? They are clearly somewhere north of the Cheerio spill!”

Carve out time to reconnect intellectually and emotionally. Simple admiration goes

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a long way ("you smell nice... no, seriously, what is that, Febreze?"). Set aside even ten minutes a day to catch-up, gadget free—maybe while the baby’s murmuring the sleep spellbeditions that make Mozart swoon.

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Organize Rituals That Revolve Around You (and Not Diapers)

Celebrate your new parental status! With so much personal and mutual gain within sight, consider tiny ceremonies or small date nights that respect and admire your ever-evolving roles. How about Thursdays for dance-offs (with post-baby bodies that have become their own kind of rhythm), or movie Saturdays that revisit why Ryan Gosling's ‘Hey Girl’ meme still whispers sweet nothings? Even dedicated ‘eye contact mornings’ or five-minute meditation in bed, uninterrupted!

Bottom line, if you want a hug, make it more appealing than ‘Yoga’ (code for ‘How To Balance Snacks In Your Pocket’).

Remember this: romance hasn’t vanished! It’s merely tucked underneath baby giggles and late-night cuddle fests with a few hours of family sleep.

Your majestic return to romance is paved by a spark you can kindle anywhere. Whether that’s atop sagging couch cushions or beneath the milky way of midnight diaper changes, your heart's intertwine can weave beautiful, lasting moments every turn.

Sign Off: It’s Not Au Revoir, It's A La Vi, Baby!

Say bye-bye to ‘bare minimum romance’ and hello to ‘daddy bought roses?' You’re about the glide and hop back into the wonders of coupledom that made you turn heads—and turn down sheets. Get your jig on lore-level: you’re redefining what parental romance means, after all! Remember: those who laugh together love longer, and nothing beats seeing that person you chose every day, amongst the whirlwind of humdrum life becomes.

So, raise a glass—or a baby bottle filled with endless possibilities (and possibly expressed milk) for self-love, partnership and moonlit tandem dashes for midnight snacks. And remember, a saucy nudge is just a click away at emamaco.com.au. Now, go rekindle that intricate chemistry—floral delivery may be optional, but fun giggles are encouraged!

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