10 Heartfelt Ways to Nourish the Bonds with Your Closest Friends During Life's Transitions
From Surviving Group Chats to Mastering the Art of Emotional Support: 10 Ways to Keep Your Friends from Un-friending You During Life's Chaos
Hey there, fabulous new-mama or mama-to-be! It's likely you haven't seen your toes in a while (thanks to your precious bundle or glowing orb of life) and things have changed in ways you never imagined. Your mirror selfies now include a little (or big) photo-bomber, and shaving your legs often feels like an extreme sport. In this ever-changing whirlwind, your friendships might feel like they're stuck in limbo. Worry not, because navigating these transitions with your gal pals doesn't have to be about surviving group chats alone. Here's how to keep the laughter, tears, and love flowing freely without the digital dramas.
Newsflash: The world hasn't ended; it just feels like it!
1. The Perks of Virtual Pajama Parties
Let’s be honest. Adulting is hard; adulting with kids, harder. But distance and diapers shouldn’t keep you from friends who know your deepest secrets (yes, we mean the time you accidentally used diaper rash cream as moisturizer). Dive into virtual movie nights—no pants required. Everyone's together, even if it's only on screens!
Your BFFs can ignore the laundry pile in the background—no judgement here!
2. Personal Courier Service: The Gift of Surprise Deliveries
Remember sneaking into each other's dorms with late-night pizzas? Now, surprise them with a personal delivery—maybe it's a box of chocolates, a quirky mug that screams "Love Ya," or a snack stash that you may or may not raid first. Trust us; it's far less creepy than popping out from behind th
3. Master the Art of the Memeful Message
Memes: the universal language of love, understanding, and relentless teasing. In less time than it takes to sterilize a binky, you can send a meme that says, “I love you” more effectively than a mushy paragraph. Mastering meme exchanges is crucial—laughs guaranteed!
Pro-tip: keep laughing even if only to avoid the compulsion to cry.
4. Remember Birthdays (...Facebook Will Tell You!)
Life shuffle often leads to "Birthday? What birthday?" mode. Thank whatever cosmic programmer invented birthday notifications. When your close friend's name pops up, make sure their birthday is celebrated like an A-list event. A charming text, a phone call, or an early-morning serenade ensures they know you're still firmly in their corner.
Social cues: Yes, liking a 'Happy Birthday' status counts!
5. Reality Check: Spill the Beans Sessions
As much as leaving the house is a Herculean task, those in-depth coffee date convos where you and bestie spill everything like open taps? Gold. If in-person isn’t plausible, indulge in good old-fashioned phone gossip. No one understands you better—an inside joke is worth a thousand words.
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Sure, every group chat has one friend who has a PhD in flakiness, but the rest of you? You're winners! Start planning that ultra-hyped lunch date, virtual game night, or the legendary weekend getaway. Triple bonus points if everyone shows up without having to postpone more times than a delayed flight!
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7. Post-Snaccident Support Groups
We're all subject to snaccidents—consuming a family-sized bag of chips in one sitting. Besties don't judge; they simply empathize. Create ‘Snaccident Support’ where carbs are welcomed, and 'I-have-no-shame' is celebrated. Besides, there's always kale… but isn’t that just garnish? #TeamSnack
8. No-Context Selfies: Never Out of Style
Your freshest look might currently be “zombie chic” but your besties love those bleary-eyed selfies. No context needed. Did you just survive the night shift with a teething gremlin? Did the wallpaper act suspicious? Share those gems. The snap won't break the internet, but it’ll crack some smiles.
PSA: Love yourself enough not to selfie-shame.
9. Host a "Future Binge-Watch List" Excel Party
Categorize every show and movie you’ll one day catch up on—together. Log it in a shared spreadsheet. Because what's sillier than organizing your virtual-watch queue with your main squad when time or energy is playing hooky? The bigger the list, the stronger the bond! Google Sheets for the win.
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From complaining about sleep dep to baby giggles, motherhood’s rollercoaster deserves a dedicated discussion. Dishing out hilariously honest anecdotes not only keeps the bond unyielding but also sneaks in mutual milestones—yours and your friends'. Sharing truly is caring!
Never ever discount the power of sharing a poop explosion story.
Finally, Glam Your Way!
Now that you've revved up your friendship engine, strut those Postpartum runway walks—or waddle them. Regardless, love fiercely and hold tight onto that glam attitude. After all, maintaining everlasting friendships during life's profound shifts isn't just a task—it's an art form. Here’s to slayin’ everything, motherhood jiggles and all. Until next time, may you rock those leggings like a fashionista conquers the Met Gala.
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